E-Mun

Phew! What a busy December!! Uncle Fatt Yee married with aunty Pei Ling early December, followed by daddy’s 30th birthday, Chinese festival Tung Zhi, xmas and new year!! This month we also declare bankrupt.. We over spent for all these “celebration”.

We are watching a series; the story is about three sisters and their marriage. Sometimes mummy will also think about your future, what are you going to be? Who will you marry with? Etc etc… mummy just hope you become an independent and successful lady, and of course mummy also hope you will marry with a good and successful man.

This is the first time daddy celebrate his birthday with you. Mummy brought daddy a small blueberry cheese cake; we ate the cheese cake together. Of course you love it so much!

E-Mun is 8 months now

Hi baby,

Mummy had finally joined a new company, HLBB. After so many years with ABMB, mummy feel bit worry to quit the job. Anyway mummy had taken a big steps to move forward. Mummy got to work extra hard now to adopt faster to the new environment, of course at the same time got to prove my ability to earn respect from others. The only worry is mummy would not have a lot of time to spend with you.

This coming xmas we plan to bring you for vocation since mummy will have long holiday. We have identified few places eg Singapore, Hong Kong, A Famosa, Tiara Beach, etc. However we end up decided to go Genting Highland. It’s difficult for us to bring you overseas at your age simply because we worry you might not suitable to drink water out there. You might laugh at us when u know this, but u would not understand our feeling till you become a mother. Anyway at the same time we brought air ticket to Hong Kong next year September; you will be one year plus by that time. We target to bring you for travelling every year.

You are now almost 8 months! What a big milestone for us! Your development still slow, you cant crawl still and no sign of teeth growing, but you can sit steadily and managed to turn over your body. We are a bit worried but doctor Antony explained to us, according to him crawling is not a milestone for development but walking yes.

Last weekend when we shopped at Ikea to buy xmas tree; someone from advertising firm approached us to let you participate in an advertisement. The advertisement is meant for “Dentol” (household product). We gone through the story board, the story required you to crawl and pick up something from floor and put in your mouth. After further consideration, mummy rejected the offer or rather the chance mainly because you cant crawl and also mummy is not favor of this.

Daddy is busy setting up the xmas tree now. We are sure you would like the xmas tree as we are going to decorate it with lots of shinning and colorful stuff and LED.

You are 6.5 months old now; becoming much naughtier. Or should I say you are getting smarter and more active? There are many advices on how to educate you; but daddy and mummy have no planning on how to educate you at this stage. We do whatever that benefits you, do everything that make you happy.

Sometimes you still cry when sleep with us. Is it because you need to see the pink flower light in your room? We are very confused. You seem to like us so much; we play with you, talk to you, and bring you out. You like to stick with us and always demand us to carry you. So how come you don’t like to sleep with us?

Mummy’s boss, Ms Mak just delivered her first baby at her age of 49! We felt so happy and glad for her. She delivered a baby boy; so you will soon know a new “boy” friend! You must not bully the small baby, k?! While we are still happy for her and her husband, we got to know sad news; Ms Mak mother passed away 15 days after she delivered her baby. The worst part is she cant even go home to see her mum’s last face and attend the funeral. From heaven drop to hell; the feeling must be very bad. Mummy felt so sad for her as well. Life is so unpredictable!

Time flies my small little baby is almost 6 months old now. You play a lot now a days; very very playful and naughty baby! You are now more than 8 kg, can you just imagine how difficult for us to carry you shopping around? Anyway mummy and daddy are very happy and satisfy with your development. You start to mumble a lot and you can easily recognize our sound. Many people say you are a smart girl. Mummy and daddy hope our little E-Mun can grow up with right attitude rather than only smart but lazy girl.

Mummy will be joining new company soon. Hopefully will have better prospect and of course earn more so that you can have better life style. At the same time, we both also worry once mummy join new company, we cant have so much family time. When you are big enough to read this blog, perhaps you can tell mummy whether you had a good / memorable childhood or not. J

Recently there are many cases where milky items were poisoned, especially baby milk powder, ice creams and other products. In China, there are so many babies died or some diagnosed kidney stone after drinking those milking product. We are very worrying bout you, we plan to bring you to Dr Antony again for ultra sound check up. Baby, you are such a precious to us, hope you grow up well.

BB,

Last weekend we brought you to Penang. This could consider your first trip. Anyway this was not a very fun experience. Mummy and daddy very tired comforting you. Even you are just three months plus but surprisingly you can recognize the hotel. Further more you only want grandma to feed you and carry you. Mummy and daddy felt so sad and disappointed. Mummy had gone through so painful labor process and daddy mummy play with you before you sleep every day. Haiz… If mummy were to frequent travel; very soon you will forget us.

However you grown up day by day; mummy and daddy enjoy watching your development. Ya. We really brought you to “Ah Yat Restaurant” to eat abalone to celebrate your 100 days!! You tasted the abalone happily!

BB, it has been quite sometime mummy didn’t write to you.. Mummy started work since end May. There were so many natural disaster happened in the world! Among all, Sze Chuan earth quake was the worst one. Then wind disaster at Myanmar. Flood at Hong Kong, China, Philippe and Taiwan. Whenever mummy read this type of news, I will pray in my heart all this disaster would not happen to you, my little princess.

Anyway no matter what happen out there, you are still the only important thing in mummy’s and daddy’s heart. Your health, your development is the most important thing for us now. Every single moment is so precious for us. You started talk to us very often in your own language of course, “ung-gu”, “kirrrr”, “errrr”. Oh how wonder life is when you willing to play, laugh and “manja” with us.

There was a new job offered to mummy but travel required, mummy don’t know if I will regret some other time later but somehow now daddy and mummy also do not want to leave bb here with grandmom alone. We decided not to accept job that required frequent travel. At least at this moment mummy and daddy want to accompany bb every single development.

We are looking forward to celebrating your 100 days!! This will be our brand new milestone for us now. According to grandmom, those old days’ people used to celebrate baby’s 100 days with drumstick. The baby must taste the drumstick indicate he would never lack of food in future. We planned to bring you to eat abalone!! Haha.. see how much daddy and mummy love you.

We brought you to visit doctor Antony yesterday, you gain so much weight! From born 3.25kg to now 6.7kg within 3 months!! Luckily doctor said you are not over weight yet, but everyone meet you also commented you are very chubby! See the attached picture, picture taken only 2.5 months. Aunty Jeannie said you have a “pumpkin” face!

Full Moon BB

Daddy n mummy busy taking care of you this few weeks so didn’t write letter to you. You had your very first “full moon” party on the Labor Day 1st May. Grandpa, grandma and uncle Fatt Chi all the way from Ipoh came to celebrate with us. Since you are our princess, your party must be held in the palace!! We celebrate the special event at the Palace of the Golden Horses. Of course you wouldnt appreciate the palace and the high tea cause you slept most of the time during the party.

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This is the first Mothers’ Day for mummy!! But there is no special celebration for mummy L. Two days before Mothers’ Day grandma went to aunt Lily’s house, mummy took care of you alone. Your stomach must had a lot of wind that cause you cried none stop. Unfortunately mummy didn’t have any experience handling baby, mummy tried to feed you milk, hug you, carry you walk around but still failed to comfort you. This was one of the most frustrated moment mummy had since you was born. Only till night we aware you were having stomachache… What a tired day…
This Mothers’ Day mummy wishes you grow up faster and healthier.
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This few days we suspect you had colic. You cried without reason, refuse to sleep even sleep also easy to wake up. Fortunately you still drink milk, Dr Antony told us as far as you wiling to drink milk and without fever then you should be fine. BB, daddy n mummy so worry bout you.

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A new baby is like the beginning of all things-wonder, hope, a dream of possibilities.-- Eda J. Le Shan

Princess,

Today don’t know what happen u keep crying and refuse to sleep. We tried so many ways to calm u down, talk to u, hug u, keep feeding you milk, etc. Just cant stop you from crying.. Daddy and mummy very worry.. Grandma said you r not sick, but we still very worry bout you. Hopefully you will get better tomorrow. BB, you “guai guai ler”.

**Finally we managed to capture ur smiling face!! We had been trying so hard since u born. See your hairstyle?? That was a famous hairstyle previously shown by famous celebrity David Beckham!! Daddy set it up for you.. :p

Dear princess,

Just read from paper, there was a news bout a new born baby died because of doctor’s mistake. Daddy and mummy felt so sorry for the parent, they must be very painful to lose their baby after nine month pregnancy and long hour labor pain. We feel glad that Dr Paul is a responsible doctor and we had chosen a well-equip hospital to deliver you.

After all we have to surrender.. Now we had decided to take turn take care of you in the night time. Yesterday grandma said you woke up at 2 in the morning and refuse to sleep till mummy came and pick u at 4. You still refuse to sleep even after mummy gave you breast milk. Oh princess, you only slept at 7 in the morning. The worst thing is whenever we are so frustrated with you; you will look at us and start smiling… Who told us baby at this stage doesn’t know anything!!

You seem do not have a specific “pattern” no matter sleeping hour or milk volume. We can only “serve” you upon “demand”, whenever you cry. Daddy starts to understand your “crying pattern”, can tell whether you want milk or just want our hug. Haiz… our little baby, when are you going to grow up?

A daughter is one of the most beautiful gifts this world has to give.

-- Laurel Atherton

Hi Princess,
Today you cant fully digest all milk, you vomited part of it. You wont understand your small reaction can easily creates so much emotions to mummy and daddy. Mummy felt like crying again. There are so many nights mummy cried because of you.
Looking at your tiny face, we just wonder how come such a small baby can create so many funny faces… Daddy wanted to let you know you always have a special way of adding joy in every single day.

Our little princess,

Finally mummy and daddy successful delivered you on 2nd April after nine months waiting!! You are so beautiful.. We felt so excited; there is no word able to descript our feeling.
Delivery of princess E-Mun was very tough. For those that never gone thru the labor process would not understand the painful of the delivery process. Mummy only took normal pain relief without using epidural, SUPERB!!

We love you baby!!